Understanding the Misunderstanding

Breaking up with best friends is thousand times painful than breaking up from a relationship.

The first question that comes o your mind is…..WHAT THE HELL WENT WRONG?
What lead to this? Why did it happened? And What role and how much role you played in it? Was it intentional or it just happened?

If all these are yet to be answered, and you are certain that the damage won’t repair now. Then you begin to question your ability to trust people, your ability to believe in yourself. Will you be able to regain that trust in people? What happened to the understanding between two best friends. Was it too hard to understand what the other was going through even when you know him/her the best? You used to anticipate each n every move of theirs and now you are blank…you couldn’t even understand that they were misunderstood. Misunderstood by who? By the one who understood everything. IRONIC no?

Sometimes, what has to happpen happenes…If it was destined to happen you have no control over it. Some people come too close, and the suddenly they are ripped apart, exposing you to the cruel and harsh world. That person who knew every flaw, every best in your is now too far that he can’t even hear you. It aches, it aches too much.

Was i too selfish to let my friends slide away while I was busy making myself busy? I’m such a mess. I don’t even know what have i done and what i will do? People have started questioning about our breakup and I have no answers. Please somebody tell me why the hell do such things happen to people with absentmindedness like me.

The damage is beyond repair, and you gotta live with it.

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Are the women of our world not as smart as men?

we all know and we all can see that women of our generation are rising above expectations but are they still not able to reach the standards of male competitors?

I just don’t know, what we lack. We women, are not that absent-minded that we end up messing everything. It’s just that rather than taking decisions from brain, we use our heart instead. Its just that we prioritize a persons feelings over anything. Is being sensitive enough has become a bane for us?

Why are we underestimated?

Some people say,

  • It is a given that men are physically superior to women, but arguably mentally also.
  • Men are capable of thinking clearly whereas, women let emotions cloud their judgement.
  • It’s important to realize that rules exist for a reason. The reason men have always dominated and (probably) will continue dominating is because of their strength.
    Whereas, Some say,
  •  While a man could out run a women or do more push ups that a women,they are not superior! Women have just the intellectual capacity as men, and it all depends on the person! Both genders are equipped for different things, and saying women are “INFERIOR” to men because they aren’t as physically strong is unjust. For instance men are “inferior” to women at birthing a baby. Which is more important that beating a female in a push-up competition.
  • We are like two sides of a coin.We both excel at equally important functions and due to the huge capacity for change and adaptions, both can be equally good at both specializations. The question is too vague.
  • How do you Measure inferiority and superiority? I don’t think it’s an objective concept. Men and women are different. Built differently though that can be changed and altered to some degree. No man and woman are the same. We are each capable of different things. Men in general are built to be stronger than woman but of course woman can gain strength and be stronger than many men. Also, strength doesn’t necessarily define one’s placing on the inferiority/superiority chart, does it?
    (http://www.debate.org/opinions/are-women-inferior-to-men)

I’m extremely sorry to say, but I find most men as misogynist. They just can’t bear the thoght of being defeated, it is a good thing but sometimes you gotta learn how to face faliure to. Men Please growup.

My question is still unanswered, Is it true that women are uncapable of reaching to men’s level?

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